social justice & the meaning of love to a servant of the loving God

I got an email today from my good friend, Sarah, with a link to a wonderful essay printed in the New York Times by Jonathan Franzen. Her subject line read “This is why social justice should be based on love.” Franzen did not write about social justice specifically but ruminates on significance of love & technology in a consumerist culture. However, his definitions & insights into love were definitely pertinent to the Christian who wants to serve because our greatest calling is to love God & to love one another.
Franzen says –
Love is about bottomless empathy, born out of the heart’s revelation that another person is every bit as real as you are. And this is why love, as I understand it, is always specific. Trying to love all of humanity may be a worthy endeavor, but, in a funny way, it keeps the focus on the self, on the self’s own moral or spiritual well-being. Whereas, to love a specific person, and to identify with his or her struggles and joys as if they were your own, you have to surrender some of your self.
Also relevant is this excerpt from The Wounded Healer by Henri Nouwen –
The great illusion of leadership is to think that man can be led out of the desert by someone who has never been there. Our lives are filled with examples which tell us that leadership asks for understanding and that understanding requires sharing. So long as we define leadership in terms of preventing or establishing precedents, or in terms of being responsible for some kind of abstract “general good,” we have forgotten that no God can save us except a suffering God, and that no man can lead his people except the man who is crushed by its sins. Personal concern means making Mr. Harrison the only one who counts, the one for whom I am willing to forget my many other obligations, my scheduled appointments and long-prepared meetings, not because they are not important but because they lose their urgency in the face of Mr. Harrison’s agony. Personal concern makes it possible to experience that going after the “lost sheep” is really a service to those who were left alone…
All this suggests that when one has the courage to enter where life is experienced as most unique and most private, one touches the soul of the community. The man who has spent many hours trying to understand, feel, and clarify the alienation and confusion of one of his fellow men might well be the best equipped to speak to the needs of the many, because all men are one at the well-spring of pain and joy.
This is what Carl Rogers pointed out when he wrote: “…I have–found that the very feeling which has seemed to me most private, most personal and hence most incomprehensible by others, has turned out to be an expression for which there is a resonance in many other people. It has led me to believe that what is most personal and unique in each one of us is probably the very element which would, if it were shared or expressed, speak most deeply to others. This has helped me to understand artists and poets who have dared to express the unique in themselves.” It indeed seems that the Christian leader is first of all the artist who can bind together many people by his courage in giving expression to his most personal concern.
Which reminds me of the popular saying, “to save a life is to save the world entire” derived from the Talmud: For this reason man was created alone, to teach thee that whosoever destroys a single soul… scripture imputes [guilt] to him as though he had destroyed a complete world; and whosoever preserves a single soul…, scripture ascribes [merit] to him as though he had preserved a complete world.
I serve a God that suffered & died for all of humanity but He also would have done it for a single one of my friends. In my mind He died for everyone I know but He also died just for Sarah. His infinite nature allows him to love the world yet love my friend so deeply that for an eternity He listened to each thought & prayer she would ever utter in this life with sweet, loving anticipation before making her out of clay in the unknown depths of the earth. He saw her unformed body & counted every hair on her head, and in the core of her being lie compassion, empathy and a capacity to love & these are His fingerprint. I am reminded that this is how much He loves my friend. It is also how much He loves me and that is why she & I love each other. It is from this place we carry out His justice serving the poor, defending the fatherless, caring for the widow & loving those who are foreign to this land.
Love is such a beautiful thing. -EP